So far in my college experience, the best thing I’ve done
is get involved with clubs and organizations. While managing meetings and
events for these clubs/orgs has been difficult, it’s something that has helped
me make friends, gain better study habits, and stay in touch with the part of
me that isn’t all about science and math. That’s why, even though managing
multiple commitments isn’t easy, I’m not telling yo
u to not be involved; I’m telling you to put yourself out there and join clubs, but to do it in a smart way.
Be able to say NO.
When you enter the involvement fair this semester, be
prepared to be bombarded with groups telling you all about their clubs and why
you should join. If you’re like me, you don’t like to disappoint people. The
first and biggest mistake I made was telling every club that “maybe” I would
join, and giving them my email. Before you write down your contact info, WAIT!!
No matter how much those recruiters promise you they aren’t going to spam your
email, they will. If you’re unsure of whether or not you want to be involved,
write down a secondary email address to get some more information. If you
definitely want to join, it’s best to give your PSU email address. That way you
will always see important emails in a timely manner. Here’s the part I had a
hard time with: if you DON’T want to join AT ALL… then don’t! Don’t give them
your PSU or any email address if you don’t want to. It’s okay to not be
interested in a club.
Choose wisely what leadership positions you want to take.
There is no bigger commitment than being the President of
this club or the Secretary for that club. Coming out of high school, I couldn’t
count on both hands how many leadership positions I had, but those obligations
take on a whole new meaning in college. It’s not easy to attend a 2-day event
when you have an Orgo exam the day after. Unfortunately, I’ve been there. Last
year I was a THON dancer. It was undoubtedly the best experience I’ve ever had
in my entire life! …but I’ll never forget all the times I had my physics book
with me, so I could study for 10 minutes if I arrived at meetings early, or the
times I simply couldn’t attend meetings because I had to study for a calc exam.
It’s definitely possible to take on some big commitments like that, but if you
find that you’re having difficulty managing two leadership positions, don’t
take on a third.
When it comes to being involved in engineering clubs,
you’re already getting a great start! WEPO is just the beginning to a program
that you can be involved in for the rest of your college career! It will build
your confidence, provide you with great networking opportunities, help you make
friends in your field, and teach you important lessons to boost your success during
college and after. Many of these useful qualities are characteristic of other
major-related clubs too, so it’s important to take advantage of those resources
and build your network. It’s also important, however to let your other
interests thrive. There are clubs and organizations for just about everything,
so if your hobby is drinking tea, belly dancing, or flying planes, you can meet
up with people who have that same hobby, and then drink tea, belly dance, or
fly planes with them…seriously, those are actual clubs at Penn State!
While getting good grades is important, college is about
learning, both inside the classroom and out. You’re going to learn what you
like and what you don’t like. You’ll figure out what things help to ease the
stress of classes, and you’ll learn how to fit those de-stressors into your
schedule. Overall, in college, you’re going to learn who you are, so put
yourself out there, join clubs, and make friends. It might be difficult, but
once you get the hang of it, you’ll be better at time management, you’ll have
friends to study with and friends to belly dance with, and you’ll start to
learn all of the things that I mentioned without even realizing you’re
learning.
I really hope you join some great clubs/orgs this year (I
suggest THON!) , and I can’t wait to meet you NEXT MONTH!!! WEPO ’13 can’t come fast enough!!!
Danielle Roethlein is a junior in Petroleum and Natural Gas Engineering and a Mentor for WEPO'13. To read more about Danielle visit her WEPO Profile: http://raindancer45.wix.com/ladyengineers#!danielle-roethlein/c3b1
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