How do you handle that bad grade?
We all want to be as successful as possible in
college, but we can’t let our successes be defined by bad exam grades. Granted,
not all of the classes you take in college will be easy. Honestly, as an
engineer the harsh reality is that most of your classes will be hard – whether
the material is difficult, the professor isn’t good at teaching, or you don’t
like what you’re learning.
It’s the first month of school and you have your
first Physics 212 exam. You’ve been going to office hours, doing your homework
all semester, and even went to all of the review sessions. Basically, you put
all of your effort and will into this exam. During the exam, you’re flying
through the exam and feel like you actually know how to answer these questions.
And then after the exam you and your friends take a trip downtown to Insomnia Cookies
since you all worked so hard for that exam and of course you always have to
treat yo’ self! Days go by and then you wake up one morning to see an email
from PSU scanning reports… you scroll all the way down to email and you see
your grade…46%, Right now you’re probably feeling so many mixed emotions and
you just don’t know what to do. There are many things you can do but one thing
you should not do.
What to do:
Take some time to digest that exam grade. There are
two phases that one goes through after seeing a bad exam grade; indulgence and
correction. The first phase is indulgence and it can mean a variety of things-
whether it be watching a funny movie, ordering all the food you can on Order Up,
or just sulking. My personal favorite is to go to Little Szechuan and then go
get some ice cream. In addition, while eating
all of that food, I will sit there and just complain to my friends. Keep in
mind, it is okay to cry and/or sulk about the bad grade; it’s something that
happens to everyone and nothing to be ashamed of. The second phase is
correction. DO NOT be embarrassed by this bad grade, in fact take this grade as
an opportunity to improve. Go to your professor and talk to him/her about this
grade. Figure out a game plan with them- different ways you can improve your
studying, and other resources to help you out. In addition to talking to your
professor, talk to some upperclassmen or your WEPO mentor; odds are they have
been in your situation at some point. They can offer you valuable advice and
maybe even their past notes that have helped them get through that class.
What NOT to do:
SURRENDER to the bad grade
Disclaimer, the story I just told you is something
that actually happened to me. Trust me, I know how hard it is to see that bad
grade. I know it’s discouraging to get a 46% when you put all your effort into one
exam. When you see that bad grade you might just want to give up and not study
for the next exam. But the thing everyone needs to understand is not everyone
is perfect and bad grades happen. If you do get a bad grade, do not let that
stop you from achieving your dreams. If you want to be a Mechanical Engineer
you will be one, as long as you keep in mind your end goal. As women who is a
part of SWE and the Women in Engineering Program, you will have so many
resources and people who are there to help you at all costs. Even if that means
staying up with you till 2am teaching you Math 141. In the end, keep your eye
on the prize and you will get there. As an engineer who has had her fair share
of bad grades, at one point I wanted to give up, but I kept pushing through. I
have learned so much and that has led to me getting an internship at the end of
my sophomore year. Anything is possible if you keep your eyes on the end goal
and whatever happens in between, happens. Just keep pushing through or as Dory
likes to say “Just keep swimming”.
Anuja Jonnalagadda is a junior majoring in Mechanical Engineering and is a Mentor for WEPO'16!
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